Copy Cat Crisis

September 11, 2008

I just started school and I am already having BIG problems! There is this girl in my class who keeps copying everything I do! I got some cool new sneakers, and then she had the EXACT same ones the next day! She has also bought the same backpack, notebook, and I even saw the same headband in her hair! What should I do?? ~Molly from Melbourne

When you two are alone, tell her that you're uncomfortable knowing she's copying you. She probably thinks you look cool and don't know what her style is, so help her find one.
Tiffany - Earth - Posted: 9/27/2008 5:43 AM

i would tell her that its geting very annoying and politly ask her to stop.
leia - palmharber - Posted: 9/26/2008 11:17 PM

Tell her to stop copying you. If she dosn't stop talk to a teacher, her parents,her or write her a letter telling her how you feel about being copyed and leave it in her locker or her desk. Once you told her how you feel ask to be friends and take her shopping to find her own style and help her with it, give her suggestions on the clothes around you.I bet with your help she'll be at school with her own style.Maybe you'll want to copy her, but remember you have your own style!
Katie - Pipersville - Posted: 9/26/2008 9:46 PM

Well ask her kindly to stop copying everything you do then if that doesn't work tell a teacher or staff member that she is copying you on everything you do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hannah - Los Angeles - Posted: 9/24/2008 9:17 PM

u should tell her how u feel thats the best thing to do
Ms. - Los Angelas - Posted: 9/23/2008 5:09 PM

She probably just loves your style.She thinks you're cool and really wants to be your friend.Tomarrow ask her if she wants to play.She would be SO happy
Lauryn - Inman - Posted: 9/21/2008 5:39 PM

tel her to stop.
shyla - taMPA - Posted: 9/21/2008 12:05 PM

just tell her to stop.but in a nice way.
chelsey - springfield - Posted: 9/21/2008 12:59 AM

Maybe she thinks ur cool.Ask her why she is copying u.Tell her u feel uncomfertable with her copying u .Tell her u guys can be friends if she wants to.Im sure she'll understand. from mackenzie p.s. GOOD LUCK
mackenzie - Leominster - Posted: 9/20/2008 7:51 PM

tell her how you feel
Kelly - Flower Mound - Posted: 9/20/2008 12:09 PM

I would tell her to stop coping what u do and do her own thing not yours
Gretchen - Beavercreek - Posted: 9/19/2008 5:49 PM

Talk to her and if she does not come around talk to your mom. I'm sure she has been in the same crisis
Ashley - Canton - Posted: 9/18/2008 2:16 PM

Talk to her and if she does not come around talk to your mom. I'm sure she has been in the same crisis
Ashley - Canton - Posted: 9/18/2008 2:15 PM

OK so there's three things you can or should do and they are 1.ask why she's copying and maybe you can work it out 2. you could kindly talk to her mom and 3. if those 2 things dont work tell the teacher shes botheribg you. well thats all i have!
Samantha - Collegeville - Posted: 9/16/2008 8:26 AM

you should just tell her what you feel.She will come around
Isabel - Tampa - Posted: 9/14/2008 10:00 PM

You should try to talk to her ask why she is copying you and try to come up with something so you don't end up wearing the same clothes.
Amber - Williams - Posted: 9/14/2008 4:08 PM

I would ask her if she could stop that it was bothering you and she might stop
jessica - galax - Posted: 9/14/2008 2:52 PM

Tell her how you feel about being copyed. Tell her in a firm "I mean Busness" sort of way. Tell her she needs to find her own style. You might even help her with that.
monet - Safety Harbor - Posted: 9/13/2008 10:34 AM

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